International Women’s Day

(NOTE: This short essay is not meant to be confrontational; this is just my musings on feminism, really. If you disagree with me, please be polite.)

Today is International Women’s Day, yet another “girl power” event that has left me chagrined as to the purpose of it. For years, people have been chasing after the bone-on-a-stick called “Gender Equality”. Yet what they don’t realise is that unless there is a change in their attitude, they’re never going to reach that goal. Let me explain.

Our society has made us think that women a minority, yet somehow, they have become more powerful than men. For example, Paw Patrol, the Nick Jr. TV show, was given several reviews like this one:

…However, my goodness, how on earth did a show get out of development that suffers from the Smurfette Principle on a major children’s network in 2013?? For a while, there was only one female pup: Skye. Now, she is pretty awesome. She can fly! She’s my 3 year-old boy’s favorite character. But in terms of gender equity, this show is stuck firmly in 1952. If you’re a boy, you can be anything you want, but if you’re a girl, you have to be the “pink one”. We know a lot of preschool girls who love this show too, and there is no reason on earth that any of the other pups couldn’t have been a girl. They added another girl pup in a later season, but she is a snow dog in what seems to be a southern California setting. I’m sure she’s really super useful and all, but come on. Couldn’t she at least have been a paramedic pup, which the crew is obviously missing? No doubt they will add another boy pup to do that job… Ugh.

Yet somehow, shows like My Little Pony, Barbie In The Dreamhouse, Doc McStuffins, and numerous others, have mostly and sometimes entirely female casts, but aren’t called sexist. And even when boys do exist in those shows, they are mostly: a) dates/crushes; b) dads; or c) random shopkeepers or staff.

I have also noticed that in the little boy TV shows, when they add a girl, she is light-years more likeable than when they add a boy into a little girl’s TV show. Take Ashima, from Thomas and Friends‘ newest movie,ย The Great Race.

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She’s motivated, polite, hard-working, and friendly (and actually sort of attractive for being a talking train). That’s a big contrast from Ken, who, as far as I know, is just there to give Barbie a date.

I think that if girls want to be equal with boys, let them be equal, not favoured because they’re girls.

Let me quote a spokesperson from HIT entertainment, who said this when he was confronted about the ratio of male engines to female engines in Thomas and Friends:

“Every engine has a job to do whether that’s hauling materials around the Island of Sodor or pulling passengers – gender is irrelevant.”

Or, translated:ย Everyone has a job to do, whether it’s a desk job or an active job – gender shouldn’t be a tool in the hands of the media to make a big pity party.

This is why I won’t be participating in any of the big festivities held on this day for women.

{Tess}

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2 thoughts on “International Women’s Day

  1. Sarah Briel March 8, 2017 / 8:48 pm

    Huh. I’ve never really thought of it like that before. That’s an interesting point, Tess. ๐Ÿ™‚
    I think you’re right, feminism should really be about gender equality, and it really does occasionally become a bit extreme sometimes, even making people who call themselves feminists be more misandrists than anything.
    I still think there’s plenty of the problems there that made people feel the need for feminism in the first place, but yeah, the type of extreme “feminism” that we normally see really isn’t helping anything …
    In my personal opinion, both women and men should be treated with respect, and shouldn’t be judged differently (as in, getting payed differently or generalized or anything like that) just because they’re different genders. We’re all humans, aren’t we?
    We should celebrate each other not because of our gender, but because of our accomplishments.

    Anyway, I’m still kind of thinking about this and trying to figure some stuff out.
    Sorry for the long comment. XD You had a really interesting point, and I enjoyed this post, if you couldn’t tell. ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • blackiesunshine March 9, 2017 / 5:25 am

      Thank you, Sarah, for your insight. I agree with you completely that women and men should both be treated the same. I could not have said it better myself.

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